I am sure that from time to time, you wonder about your brother's progress.
If not now, then maybe one day in the future you would like to finally remember him and come to this Blog and read about him, anyway.
Either way, here he is.
This year, 2016 your brother Alex is doing very well.
**He is happy, healthy, in his Senior year of High School, and taking some nice College classes along with his Senior electives. (like Emergency Medical Responder)
He has applied to one of the BEST Medical Schools in the Nation and is sure to get a Scholarship to this awesome school.
He has one of the best jobs in our County, for a young person!
He is a server, at the most expensive restaurant, in the largest city in our area.
He does very well there. (so blessed)
Alex plans on being a Doctor of sorts. His plan is to be an Orthopedic Surgeon, but he says that if things don't go as planned, he will be a Doctor of some sort, regardless of what degree. He loves the Medical field, just like his mother.
He is such a 'people person' that I am sure he will do very well, in whatever medical field he goes into.
He is tall (5' 11" right now and still growing and maybe will be 6ft, like his Grandpa Hatch?) and of a normal weight...just like his brother Jordan. They both have the same body types. He is handsome, as well. His face looks very much like Andrews, though. They could be twins. ☺☺
He loves, loves, loves his pet cat, "Kitty". He is our Orange kitten (who is around 6 months old).
Alex is a tremendous help, with difficult tasks, for his elderly grandfather, Grandpa Hatch, and also for his step-dad, who is getting older. (Whom Alex loves both of them very much)
We will miss all of his help, when he is off in College soon.
I believe the State of Utah is wanting compensation of thousands of dollars from Bernd for past child support.
Also, I had paid Bernd Holler thousands and thousands of dollars for the child support of Alexander from 5 years old to 18 years old, back in 2004, which over the years he did NOT give back any of this to us, or Gramps, for raising his son and financial responsibility, of Alex.
Yes, he owes us thousands and thousands of dollars in child support.
We have taken a huge monetary loss, without Bernds help with raising Alex. We have been contemplating to turn in the proper paperwork and give the State of Utah license to pursue for past child support.
Alex is the light of our lives and we tell him often of how grateful we are to have him in our lives. The whole town and most of the County here knows and loves Alex! Yes, you heard right. Almost EVERYONE around this County knows Alex and loves him. (especially since all summer while he worked as a cashier at Wal-mart, he got to know most of everyone in Richfield and the surrounding areas)
We can't go anywhere these days without people stopping to talk to Alex...even strangers! He is so friendly and well loved.
Anyway, he is buying a car right now (and I think he has a girlfriend? He won't tell me...hehe) and he is always driving off somewhere.
He is really enjoying his Senior year and is excited with his BIG plans for the future.
Please, sons, drop him a line, if you can. (he is easily found on FB) He is convinced that you do not like or love him, since your dad Bernd has not allow any of you to contact him over the past 10 years.
If you do reach out to him this year, realize as a minor, he tells me of your conversations, because of his great respect and love for his mother, your mother... and how he knows that this is the right thing to do.
However, if your relationship is just friendly and non-legal or threatening to Alex's happiness (and even your happiness) he would be happy to hear from you.
With that said, he does not appreciate when you bash or disrespect me, (your mother) in any way....just like you would not appreciate him verbally bashing any of your loved ones...OK? (so he says to me)
Just keep your conversations friendly, trustworthy, and respectful with Alex, and he will do the same for you. That can't be too hard.
I pray that you boys, my deeply loved sons, will always be best of friends, with great respect and love for each other...and remember, that includes Alexander, your youngest brother too.
We have always prayed that you would have a respectful, open communication with us and especially with your brother... and are sad that others would not allow this for you and for him, over many years. 😢
We are extremely proud of Alex..... and for the exceptional young man he has become and is becoming...
(and also proud of many of you , for the good you are accomplishing)
... and for the growth all of you have reached thus far,
however there is still much more maturity you must reach....and we pray that you will continue to grow in faith, hope, understanding, truth, light, and most importantly 'respect' of others, and of yourselves.
Love and blessing, to all of you this day, and for always,
♥ Mom (Alex too)